Dobrestii

Not long ago, I heard this phrase in this form: “We live in Romania and this is taking all our time.” Many times I heard it from people that were frustrated and upset for living their lives in Romania, angry on other Romanians or simply their life. I don’t recall if these guys did something about it. But this is not the thing I want to talk about.

Late last night, before going on the land of sleep, I had another revelation. Not an extremely important one, but pretty important to please me and make dream so nice

We are more and more people that LIVE and FEEL. And this makes me very very happy. This theory applies from individual to general. OK, maybe among my fellows I know many, but also among my fellows’ fellows they are more and more, and so on.

I see, meet and read daily about people that leave the system in which they lived until now, just to feel that they are doing something in this life. Some of them go beyond their limits. One of them is Paul Dicu, which passed the finish line of Marathon de Sables, one of the toughest competition in the world: 250 km in the desert, in 7 days, with all the luggage you might need (including water) in your backpack. Câmpenii
left the comfort zone that the managerial jobs offered them in Romania just to live in the middle of the jungle, with goods and bads only to rediscover themselves and feel what they are living. Alex Găvan is facing all the challenges of the 8000 m climbs without supplementary oxygen and Sherpa support just to feel the happiness and joy of this life. Or Lola that “works” on a dream factory where feelings make the beads she paints to be so beautiful.

Lewis swims at North Pole in a deep 4200 m black water having “only”-1.7 degrees, or Roz that leaves on her own with a boat over Atlantic or Pacific in a journey for feeling that she is living and on the same time to show the world that The Earth is so wonderful but in so much suffer because of the pollution.

The thing I learned from these stories and not only is that life deserves to be lived, in our own way that offers us a state of happiness and joy. And by doing this, our kids will see us and the world will be seen through much more eyes as being wonderful and fascinate. And this can mean a single thing: a happier future for all of us.

Try to meet people that love life and live it. They are many around us but the only thing we have to do is to open our eyes and see them. But be careful, this is a contagious thing. The more people you know, the more intrigued you will be to go exploring your inner self and not only, which results’ can make you happy someday. This doesn’t mean that life will be only milk and honey. On the contrary, the way to happiness has its tough moments, maybe some of them unbelievable at the starting point.

Kids are triggers for these visions. Follow them with all you body and mind to see how they explore this world they arrived in, live together the happiness of small discoveries, study their behaviors through which they manage to walk or talk. These behaviors are indestructible proves that man is a human being designed to succeed and be persistent.

But this is possible with only one condition: to really really want it. Without desire, the way seems to be impossible or it actually is. Without a strong desire, we might think that everything works against us, people want the bad things for us to happen and “life is a bitch”. And look how we get to ourselves, to our desires, to what we want and think we can do, to how we say to ourselves more than we feel that we are small, that we can not change the world and the only thing we can do is to resign ourselves that this is it and how some Romanians say: “Leave it like this ’cause it works!”

Finally everything is about our own person, our believes, experiences and wishes. It depends on us to take it slowly, step by step looking for the happiness and dream that can become our reality.